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So angry about the second from last I actually signed up to tumblr just to post about it. If that abuser wanted to talk about someone abusing her, with a lead into what she did to her brother, I think that would be ok because after all many childhood abusers get the idea from being molested/raped themselves, but how dare someone in that position say that their victim has ruined their childhood? I mean what next? A college rapist complaining that their victim is sending them continual explicitly accusatory texts? Complaining that it was their best shirt they were wearing at the time and now they can’t wear it to their wedding because they can’t get the bloodstains out? I don’t know what the answer is, I don’t like censoring talk of abuse, but ProjectUnbreakable, what is going on when you post something like that? Is this blog for unrepentant perps as well now?
Sorry about the sarcasm, I’m just fuming. Children who are victimised who go on to abuse is a thorny issue; one has to hold the fact that they are both a victim and a perpetrator in ones mind at the same time and that’s difficult. Also child-perpetrated abuse is still dismissed by a lot of people. Even as someone who has only ever been a victim I can understand a victim-abuser wanting to see their abuse of someone else as totally not their fault, but though it might cause problems, even that would be better than having a go at their victim for daring to be damaged by what’s been done to them. Badly done, anonymous submitter, badly done.